WTF!

So I got a phone call today on my cell phone and when I answered it was a lady asking for a relative of "me" I said uh this is "me" and the lady was silent for a second apparently she was calling to let my husband know that there doctors office had been informed that I passed away in December and they were going to publish my name in their newsletter......WTF! I had no idea that I was dead =)I am waiting until tomorrow to dig a little deeper and find out what happened but boy am I curious as to my cause of death. We had in fact been patients of this small clinic whom only serves people in one zip code and the odds of another person with my name dying and also being part of their clinic are slim to none so someone made an oops now I just need to figure out who all they notified of my death and who was doing the notifying!Uh has anyone else had anything strange and bizarre like this happen to them?

Sincerely,
In the ground in Idaho =P

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Advice Please

Haven't written in a few days just thought about updating. Mothers day was ok not a whole lot going on the usual stuff BBQ's and avoiding in laws. Found out a good friend of mine from grade school is in jail.......I have known him since sixth grade and he has never been violent but now he is in jail for attempted strangulation and domestic violence I can't believe it he must have turned to drugs after his mom passed away last year. We lost contact shortly after and I now I know why. I am very saddened by this situation I would like to make contact with him and find out if I can help him clean up but I don't know if that is the right thing to do. Advice at this point would be appreciated.

Sincerely,
Insistent in Idaho

Another day crammed with homework. Alas I have managed to finish it all in time to pop into my mother in laws home just long enough to be polite then off to help a friend with some home repairs. I am tired and feel quite blah. Anybody else having a blah day and just want to let it out? Feel free =)

Cool Blog! Hate Politics!

Wow! I have just discovered Shabby blogs that is how I dressed up my blog! I know I know completely girly and uninteresting now but I like it.It's kinda like myspace layouts not that I use myspace because really no one does anymore right?
::shifty eyes::
Anyways I am so sick and tired of hearing about politics.I did however hear the phrase "Tea Bag Barbie" yesterday and I couldn't help but laugh. Really it is funny but also childish. I just wish that we could all stop using our FREEDOM to divide us. It is always "it's my right to blah" and a rebuttal of "Well it's my right to blah" ugh that is so annoying. I mean really people just be happy you have all these freedoms and take some time to I don't know do something crazy like psh ....lets see....oh yeah STAND UNITED! We are a country at war and here the rest of the world is watching us at home and we are doing what........raging war on each other. Alright that is enough of that tangent. Just another piece of random thinking.

Pondering

I would apologize for my last post except that no one has responded so I gather it would be inappropriate to apologize to myself. =)
Today aside from my encounter earlier was an OK day. Still pondering this whole baby thing and nope you know I just don't know.
I am attempting at all cost to avoid my mother in-law right now....... not that she is crazy because she isn't she is just different in a (I'm only gonna contact you when it will make me look good) sorta way. Whatever though at first I was really angry but now I don't really care I just avoid it which is usually once a month so it isn't to hard.In-laws are crazy in general because they are like a whole adopted family fully equipped with drama and all. Does anyone ever marry into a "normal" family? I mean really I would like to know? I don't think there is such a thing anyways. Well, time to work on my story. Be back soon!

Debt Collectors

Collection agencies.....I hate them with a passion and I actually wish ill on the one in particular I dealt with today. Perhaps if they were polite to the people that actually paid them like myself I would continue to pay them but seeing as how they treated me sooooooo rudely today I think I will reduce the small amount I was already paying them. They are going to sit on my credit forever at least that is pretty much what they told me so why should I be in a hurry to pay them?! On another note had a nice glass of wine and a lovely dinner to calm my nerves and feel much better though obviously still bitter.Anybody feel like sharing their thoughts on collection agencies or an experience they have had with them?

Pet Peeves

I know that everyone has them. Those little annoyances that drive you insane but lately mine have gotten to the point of insanity. I can't stand it when people chew with there mouth open or clank their utensils to their plate bowl or whatever. I live with some people whom I can hear right now as I sit clear across the house. Their chewing their slurping and their clanking all driving me crazy! I don't know maybe it is all my frustrations bottled up that is causing this insane annoyance. Alas nothing I can do about it right now.I wonder if there are other people out there who have pet peeves that irritate them this bad? Like I said it could just be all my frustration. Anyways moving on my coffee is getting cold and I have a history paper to write so once again off I go to start my day. More updates and thoughts later! =)

It's late now after 11 pm I know I need sleep but the gigantic red bull I drank a couple hours ago has yet to ware off. Anybody else awake? Trouble sleeping? Care to discuss it? Well, if not that's OK
Had this new blog in the back of my mind all day.Trying to rack my brain on a topic to appeal to people and then just like that I realized I don't care. Writing in itself feels therapeutic and if no one cares to read that's OK I will just keep going for myself. Today I didn't get to talk to my husband for very long he has been gone since January for training and at first when he left we had drifted so far a part that divorce seemed inevitable but the longer we are a part the more we both seem to realize we need each other. At first when he left I thought WooHoo I can have the middle of the bed!!!! It was awesome for like two seconds........and then....reality hit and loneliness set in. Not that I mind being alone but I found that I missed him I genuinely missed him and the crazy stuff he did that drove me crazy.I gave it some time wondering if it would pass but each day he has been gone my longing for him has grown. I know him finishing training will be bitter sweet. Finally being together and rekindling what we thought was lost only to be separated within the year for yet again an inevitable deployment.
He has spoken of possibly having another child we have two already our daughter is six and our son is four. I wonder if it is the right thing to do. Suppose I will dwell on that as I attempt to drift off to sleep.
If anyone is reading this entry feel free to add opinions or suggestions at will.
Good Night.

Can't find anything

Ok so I have now attempted to find interesting blogs to read only I can't seem to figure out how to search for specific topics in blogs...........didn't think it would be this complicated.
Well now that I am forced back to my new blog I suppose it is worth attempting an actual topic.

My life is rather dull I don't take a lot of risks on an every day basis at least not yet. I am in the army reserves so I guess eventually I will be taking some pretty huge risks. My husband has also joined the Army he is going active duty so in August we will be moving where ever they want us to go.Waiting for them to tell us where we are going is hell. I feel like a child waiting for Christmas. I know that sounds horrible but I currently live in Idaho the state I grew up in. I hate this state. It isn't so bad to visit but to live here is just crazy. It is like stepping back in time. People are rude extremely narrow minded and the general public doesn't seem to care that the state continuously cuts educational funding.
Wow glad I got all that out I suppose I could just blog about how much I dislike Idaho. If anyone would care to listen. I am off now to run errands.

Wow! Starting a blog..........guess I have been curious about this for a while. Don't really know what I am going to write about yet or for that matter who is even going to see these posts. I guess if you read this I could use some interesting topics to start with ;)